June 24, 2013

Weekend In The Cities!

We went to the Cities this weekend for a 50th birthday party for Jason's oldest Kainz cousin, Joe, and to walk in the Heartbeat 5000 Walk for the Children's Hospital.  We went up on Friday night because the walk was early in the morning and also to met Jason's parents at his cousin Diane's house in Prior Lake.  We were able to go out for supper with them and then we headed to Grandma Doris' house in South Minneapolis.  We knew the weather was going to be sketchy this weekend, but didn't realize how bad it was going to be.

On our way to Grandma's house we were driving in standing water, and getting pushed by the strong winds.  It was crazy the way the rain was coming down in waves.  You could see the rain getting pushed by the wind.  By the time we made it to Hwy 7 I was glad I wasn't driving, and I'm guessing Jason had white knuckles.  We had to dodge a humongous tree that had fallen over the road, and cross over a downed electric wire (I thought this was very dangerous, but that's where the traffic was routed). We made it to James Street safely, our next decision was to figure out whether to park under a tree if it hailed, or to completely stay clear of the trees in case one would fall.  We didn't have a choice of where we could park so under a tree we went!

We woke up to many downed trees and lots of cars buried by trees that had fallen on top of them or branches that had broken off, but thank goodness our car was spared any damage!  While driving to Father Hennepin Bluffs Park for the walk we were able to really see the damage that was caused by this storm.  Our hearts go out to the residence of South Minneapolis, they have a lot of work ahead of them!

The Heartbeat 5000 is a walk to raise money for the Heart Clinic at Children's.  We thought it would be a perfect way to give something back to the clinic that has already done so much for our family.  We wanted to walk to show our appreciation for the wonderful doctors, nurses, and unbelievable technology that has allowed Tovin's heart to be the best it can currently be!


We signed up under the team name of Tovin's Superheroes.  I meant to have created a unique t-shirt with a cleaver slogan on it, but that never happened!  I ended up making these capes instead.  Hopefully next year we will be wearing team t-shirts, and our team will consist of more than four members!  Note to self...I think I need a longer cape next year!


While we waited for the race/walk to begin they had many activities for the children to do.  Tovin and Addison were enjoying the pool full of bubbles when Dr. Rios noticed Tovin.  He immediately bent down and started to talk and blow bubbles with Tovin and Addison.  We have wrote it a millions times, but I will write it again.  Dr. Rios has completely surpassed our wildest dreams and expectations of what a doctor stands for!  Out of all the people and children that were in the park on Saturday morning (there were a lot - in the thousands!), he stopped and genuinely took his time to check out Tovin say hello to Addison and chat with us.  I can't say enough good things about him.  We have a wonderful team of doctors and nurses in Tracy as well, we are so lucky to be blessed with medical staff that cares so much for Tovin's heart health!


Our team that only consisted of two parents, two children, two strollers, four drinks, one banana, and one roll of Ritz crackers crossed over the starting line.  Next year our team will have more team mates (hint hint!) and consist of two rolls of Ritz crackers, and yes Addison we will grab a banana for you as well even though you'll say you don't want one!


During the walk there were many times that we saw some of Tovin's nurses and doctors.  They would call out his name and wave at him, or stop to talk with him.  These are just a few of the doctors that saw him daily while he was in for surgery, we met up with them while looking at the waterfall. 


This is super dad!  He's a fearless leader, driver, husband, and father to two wonderful children!


The 5K path took us past the Academy of Neurology.  They were handing out very nice free bike helmets. We were able to get two helmets for Addison and Tovin.  There were many different stops along the walk for us to pick up something for the kids.


Let's just say our 5K time was not a world record!  We had so many stops along the way!  We finally made it to the finish line one hour and eleven minutes later...I know that is a great time!


We made it back to the car and safely into their car seats.  Tovin thought he was still hungry even after he ate a sleeve of crackers.  Notice what Tovin has in his hands and the smile that is on his face!  Yep, that is a black licorice stick!  I'm happy as a clam that we share this love of "goodness" together!


We went back to Grandma Doris' house to check to see if the house had power.  No such luck!  We ended up going down to the Calhoun Square to eat dinner at our favorite Thai restaurant, Chiang Mai Thai.  This restaurant has quickly become a necessity when we go to the Cities!


Jason wasn't too pleased to be poising for a picture in front of the restaurant...but I can never remember the name of the restaurant and now I can just look back at the blog to remember it!  The cashew stir fry and sweet and sour stir fry are both amazingly delicious!  Addison and Tovin love the mango juice, fried rice and pad thai.  


I love this picture of my three darlings walking together!  Tovin started out walking two weeks ago with very stiff legs, he didn't like to bend his knees.  Now, Tovin is over keeping his knees straight.  It's now become like he is taking an aerobics class and he is doing high knee lifts.  Tovin was able to walk on his own and even run with assistance from Calhoun Square to Grandma's house...what a difference two weeks make!  


It was good to see this street sign.  


Saturday afternoon we went to Joe's house for his 50th birthday.  Most of Jason's family was there to celebrate with Joe.  Addison and Tovin were able to try White Castle"sliders" (Addison consumed two!), learn how to play badminton from Craig, bug Joe constantly about when the cake was going to come out of the house, and play with some of their cousins.   Thanks Joe for a great party!


Addison asked Great Uncle Frank to hold and protect her baby Carol (Baby Carol is wrapped up in the blue sweatshirt) while she played in the backyard.  


We didn't know if we were going to leave for home on Saturday night from Joe's party, or go back to Grandma's house for the night, but we left the party a little late and we still had to pick up some necessities from Targ*t before we left so we decided to stay.

Grandma's house still didn't have electricity so we decided to go to the Winter's house for the night.  Thank you for the wonderful hospitality and delicious breakfast in the morning!  While we were going to bed Addison brought up that she missed Great Grandma Doris, and wanted to see her again. Addison and Grandma had a great connection, and enjoyed being together.  We talked about Grandma being in heaven, and that she's always in her heart and that someday she will see her again.  Addison understands that Grandma passed away this past fall, but still wanted to be close to her again.  Jason and I decided since we were in the Cities that we would take her to her grave site located in the Fort Snelling Cemetery.

Grandpa Joe was very proud to be part of the Merchant Marines, and felt it was an honor to be buried amongst his friend that share a common bond.  This meant that Grandma could be buried here as well right next to or I should say behind Grandpa.   Grandma's name is on the backside of Grandpa's marker.




Grandma knew about Tovin, and met him in pictures, but wasn't able to personally meet him.  I know that Grandma would have loved him just as much as she loved Addison!  I think that Tovin would have reminded her of her Stevie - a little bit of feisty mischief that's always on the go or pushing some type of button on a gadget to get a reaction or a noise!  Notice Addison is sitting on the ground for this picture!  This is huge...she really dislikes the feel of grass on her legs (the poky feeling)...she said she would do it for Grandma!


We were about to leave, but Addison was just milling around not knowing what to do (I don't think she knew how to leave, if that makes sense).  She ended up giving Grandma a kiss goodbye.  I totally missed it, so she gave her another kiss for me!


Some of the other markers had something by them.  We didn't bring anything because we didn't know that we were going to make this impromptu stop.  We wanted to leave something by her side, but what...there were many twigs on the ground, but I remembered how Grandma disliked twigs in her yard so that wouldn't do.  As we were walking to the car we spotted a little bird's nest on the ground under a beautiful tree.  We decided that the bird's nest would be perfect for her!  She loved watching the birds out her window when she lived with mom and dad!  Addison carefully placed the nest on top of the marker, but it was slightly windy out, and we thought it might blow away so she placed it...


on the ground.  It was a perfect spot!  I know that Grandma would have been pleased with the nest!

"Even the sparrow has found a home, and the swallow a nest for herself, where she may have her young... a place near your altar, LORD Almighty, my King and my God.  Psalm 84:3

It was a perfect way to end an amazing weekend!  

June 20, 2013

Thursday's Picture Post


Tovin rode with Jason for one round on the lawn mower.  Jason was very careful and held onto him, and the mower wasn't going.  He loved the ride on the mower, and anything that has wheels, moves and makes noise!  He carried this tractor book around all day.  


Either it was crazy windy at our house today or Addison has a new hair style!  Not sure what Tovin is doing - but you gotta love his expression!


They love to go up and down the driveway with this contraption.  Tovin is usually the one pushing Addison, it's great exercise for him.



Tovin just finished helping me water the flowers.  I asked him to bring me the buckets...but he had other things in mind like...


singing in the bucket really loud, and then....


laughing about it!


Addison asked Jason for a boat ride tonight!


He didn't hesitate and away they went!  What a perfect night for a quick ride around the pond!


Today was a beautiful day!  We were able to get a lot accomplished outside, I think that we will have the beach ready for next weekend!

June 19, 2013

Conquering Fears!

The last couple days Addison has actually asked if she could go to the pool in the afternoon to play!  


She is still nervous to lay her head all the way back...


...but it looks like she is starting to give in, and give all her worries and fears to God, and is finally able to relax...a little bit anyway!


She yelled for me to look at her wet hair!  One proud little girl...it seems like such small progress, but to her, it is huge!


We all went to the pool today and met up with Auntie, Elizabeth, Jenni and Hannah.  It was a perfect afternoon!  I just love these girls -- they are so kind and patient with Addison!


This is only the second time Tovin's been in the water at the pool.  He's been with during Addison's lessons but has only been with now two times in the afternoon during open swimming.  He seemed to really enjoy the water, but with the wind we had today even though it was 80 some degrees outside, he was a little cold so we didn't stay very long!


The girls all huddled around him, and it looked like he was telling them big stories!  Here's the story he was telling in our minds as we looked through today's pictures...

"Once upon a time there was this fish that was living in our pond, you know by our house...well, a long time ago, during the ancient times of China, this fish, we'll call her Gigi, cause that's the only girl name I know how to say right now, had like a billion babies and low and behold wouldn't you know it one of those babies ended up in our pond, you know by our house...well this fish living in our pond, we'll call her Gigi too, said that someday she wanted to grow up to be thissssssss big!  


She said she wanted to be what was known in the fishing world as a "wall-mounter"!  Gigi was bound and determined to become this really big fish, almost as big as a shark...is what she said, and if she was kinda ugly and smelled real bad, like all fish do...that she was ok with that to as long as she grew up to be BIG!

Well, one day I was telling mom and dad about Gigi the fish that lived in our pond, you know by our house...and my dad said he knew of a way for Gigi to get real BIG, and fast too.  He said that the water temperature in the Tracy pool, being that it is a heated pool, was just perfect for a fish like Gigi to help her grow REALLY BIG...and he would know because he used to work at the Tracy pool in the summertime.  He doesn't anymore, but anyways...
The other night we brought Gigi the fish that lived in our pond, you know by our house...to the pool and we hopped over the fence right over there and...put her in the kiddie pool!  


Yeah, I know...I thought he was crazy too, but I was with him, and we did it.  ...Yeah, this kiddie pool right here!  ...No, it's the truth...I'm serious...the pool that you guys are in right now, the pool that I have my legs and feet dangling in right now...I agree, it's CRAZY!!!


Don't believe me?  Well...don't look behind you right now...cause here she comes swimming right between the two of you right now!


Ahhhh hahahaha, I got you guys...I got you guys real bad.  You guys fell for that one hook, line, and sinker! Hahahahahahahaha!


Hey, dad...I see some babes over there...let's go over that-a-way...the nurses at Children's said that chicks dig scars!"


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Tovin definitely loves to splash!  Do all boys love to do that?

We have witnessed so many positive changes in Tovin this month!  He is becoming more comfortable with his new environment, his ability to walk, his increased vocabulary, and his love for different types of food!  This little miracle is transforming right before our eyes!  It is just the coolest thing to watch - we're soaking it all in!  

I will admit the first couple months with Tovin with us at home were full of challenges.  We were adjusting to having two children (I know, depending on perspective, two isn't very many, but for us it's been a huge change!) and he was adjusting to having his life turned upside down!  We weren't understanding his communication style except for the sign language we had taught him.  He wasn't impressed with the food that we were serving him even though it was all items that he ate for us in China.  I'm guessing it had something to do with my lack of cooking skills!  Those first two months are now behind us, and we are moving forward in a positive direction at lighting speed!  

Oh how these two precious children have changed our lives for the better!

June 17, 2013

Happy Father's Day!

Happy Father's Day to Jason, all of the grandpas, and two special birthdads!  
Addison and Tovin are so lucky to have so many great "dads" in their life!

It was a beautiful Father's Day!  The weather was perfect and we were able to do some work outside!  I absolutely love productive days!

Addison and Tovin helped make Jason's gift yesterday while he was riding bike downstairs.  They had a great time getting their hands dirty, and trying to keep his gift a secret.  When I went to pick up the stamp pad I assumed that water-based ink would come off their hands easier than any other stamp pad, but as you can tell it doesn't come off at all!   We soaked, scrubbed and lathered again, but the ink won the battle!  Addison loved having a dirty hand, which is not typical for her, and...


Tovin was not too sure about it, which is not typical!


In the end they both enjoyed trying to wash the black ink off their hands.  I think next time I won't procrastinate and purchase a washable stamp pad! 


Today we were able to celebrate Father's Day with some family members.  Great Grandma Bernie is always a favorite with the grandkids!  He has a great, positive personality and is like a kid himself!  Addison loves that he is always willing to play tea party with her, and Tovin loves to be teased by him.  They both light up when he's around!


Grandpa Denny enjoys playing with Addison and Toivn as much as possible, teaching them about how things work, looking for unusual things in nature while on their explorations, and anything that deals with farming!  They have a great time with him and learn so much!


We were not able to spend the day with Grandpa Dennis from TRF, but will see him this coming weekend, the kids are excited!

I wanted to get a nice picture of Addison and Tovin today.  Tovin wasn't too cooperative, but I think that the picture turned out well.  Tovin likes to flop over and lay on Addison while we are trying to take photos.  I think it's rather funny that Addison is holding his leg down knowing that at any minute Tovin will take a dive towards her!  


This is a typical photo of the two of them!  While this is taking place they are both laughing, Jason is behind me trying to get their attention and everyone else that was around for this photo opp was egging them on!  It probably looked like a circus!


Jason is such a great dad!  He loves to spend time with the two of them as much as they love to spend time with him!  Thanks Jason for being so kind and loving, and trusting me when I brought up the "crazy" idea of adoption.  

We are so blessed to have these precious children in your arms, and they are so blessed to have a dad like you!  What a great role model you are to them!


Wow, not sure how this picture happened, but it's probably one of my favorites!  It oozes love!


Along with the picture they made for Jason they also each picked out a box of candy yesterday to give him as well.  Addison and Tovin made sure that Jason didn't have to open the boxes ,as they took it upon themselves and volunteered to taste test each box for quality control and make sure that it was both ok and safe for dad to eat!


Happy Father's Day!

For the Lord is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations.
Psalm 100:5